Understand them, get the best out of them rather than trying to remould them
SINCE I started the column about a year ago, I often get requests to write about the “younger” generation (Gen-Y).
They
 are also referred to as Millennias, those born from 1981-1991 
(22-year-olds who are new graduates joining the workforce to those who 
are in the early 30s). Some famous people in this generation include 
Mark Zuckerberg and Lady Gaga.
There
 are many surveys to find out who they are, their characteristics and 
how to better manage them. There are many studies on them because they 
make up 25% of the world's population.
Retailers, computer and 
mobile phone companies, games and gadget producers would certainly like 
to know their tastes, habits, likes and dislikes. Financial institutions
 would like to know their spending patterns, propensity to save, online 
purchasing habits, among others.
At work, managers, senior managers and many of the older generation would like to know how to better relate and work with them.
The complaints my friends have about Gen-Y would be something like this:
They
 have hired a young graduate from a good school, the resume looked 
impressive, he is pleasant looking, dresses professionally and speaks 
quite well.
Six to eight months into work, and the guy seems to 
be always late for work, late for important meetings, appears distracted
 at work, cannot be reached (on handphone), leaves work at 6:30pm and 
complains he has no work-life balance, makes mistakes in documents and 
presentations to clients, goes to meeting unprepared the list goes on.
“When you give them feedback, they don't take it too well and may want to resign.
“They
 don't know what they don't know. They make mistakes and think they are 
right. They have unrealistic expectations and think they were unfairly 
treated.
“They are choosy about what they do. They want 
interesting and exciting work but cannot deliver. They don't take on 
much responsibilities but think they should be paid more”.
Someone
 asked me what they could do to change them. I thought it ought to be 
the other way around we need to change our ways, expectations and how we
 work with them.
The generation is a reflection of the society 
they have grown up in. They didn't cycle nor walked to school. They 
didn't grow up poor and deprived.
They grew up in a world of 
celebrities, designer goods, smart phones, computers and the Internet, 
24/7 connectivity, iPod, Facebook, Youtube and addictive e-games 
(instead of games played in the field, rivers or jungle).
They are different in many ways. Accept it and deal with it.
We
 believe in doing one thing at a time and being focused. Are they 
distracted and cannot focus or are they good at multitasking?
At 
work, they listen to music, chat and surf all at the same time. When 
they are chatting, it is not with one person at a time but with half a 
dozen different chat groups (as opposed to a few individuals).
They
 move more they spin the pen when they are at their desk, they click the
 mouse and turn the pages faster. They have so many windows opened, they
 flip back and forth.
While they are eating, they surf, text, 
send pictures on Instagram, make Facebook posts, listen to music, tweet 
and have conversation with the person in front of them or maybe squeeze 
in a game at the same time. That is the way they are.
That means they can handle eight tasks while having a meal which equals to higher productivity.
Be
 sure to engage them with multi tasks and challenging tasks. Don't 
assume they ought to slowly learn the ropes like how it was 20 to 30 
years ago when we were a new graduate. Take advantage of their savviness
 by having them set up tools, work on complex spread sheets and make 
searches, gather data or come up with ideas.
(There may be 
qualifications why you will not assign certain work to them. But if you 
don't and let them make the mistakes, they would miss the learning 
opportunity and become bored)
They are used to direct 
communications having grown up with emails, tweets, handphones, smses, 
messengers, facebook; they don't like the rigid hierarchy in the 
organisation or being limited by their position.
If they have 
something on their mind, they should be able to talk to or email someone
 higher in the organisation (regardless of level) rather than their 
immediate superior who don't seem to be able to help or understand.
This
 can be a positive. They are helping highlight stifling work environment
 that we have got used to and give meaning to better collaboration 
between different levels in the organisation. Their opinion counts. We 
need to get used to their feedback and having our views questioned.
Retention
 is an issue. They may move on for something more interesting or aspire 
to be entrepreneurs. How could they not when there are so many Internet 
multi-millionaires or those who became multi millionaires because they 
started a business or sold an application to Yahoo or Facebook.
They
 have been told by billionaires, actors and many successful 
personalities “not to settle”, they can do anything they set their mind 
to and should dare to fail.
Inspire them with the right ambitions
 at work. They are a group prepared to work hard if you can show how the
 hard work fuels that ambition. Spend time to understand their personal 
buyer values what they value most in their job and aspire for.
Every
 generation complains about the next generation. The new generation is 
somehow less respectful, less hardworking but somehow in time they will 
become responsible adults with major responsibilities at work and as 
parents.
The hippies from the 70s became responsible adults and CEOs.
Gen
 Y is our future. If you are at work or at home with them, spend more 
time with them. They will shape trends, politics, culture, our work 
place and many other aspects in the world.
If you experience pain
 and frustration trying to convince your young boss how things are done 
in the past, don't try too hard. Listen to his ideas and get used to his
 ways. You may find that you can still learn and develop.
They are different, they are here to stay. Get used to it... until Gen Z comes.

TAKE ON CHANGE By JOAN HOI
 
 Joan Hoi is the author of Take on Change. We need to throw out some of 
our old selves to better appreciate this young, fun and bright group!
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